Charlie found a golden ticket in a chocolate bar, and he and his grandfather leapt with joy. It was a spectacular occasion not only for Charlie, but for the entire family. Recently one of my mother’s closest and most amazing friends noted that we all have a golden ticket. She was not referring to Charlie’s delightful surprise. Instead she was referring to that moment in life when we come to an end. When we cash the ticket in and go to the other side. Some of us know what we get for that ticket and for others it’s a surprise.…